I am a movie loving sex blogger, publishing regular reviews of my favourite hot movies and what they taught me about sex, love and relationships!

My profile photo for the about me page - a cleavage shot with two DVDs covering my breasts

I love love love watching movies and I also love sex. I love sex! And most of what I learned about sex, I learned from movies. But is that a reasonable or sensible thing to do? Which are the good movies to watch? And which are the hot hot mainstream movies and what can they teach us about sex?

This blog is a catalogue of my favourite movies that discuss sex – why I like them (or don’t like them) and what I learned (or didn’t learn) from them! It’s also a chance for me to learn and rant about feminism and queer representation in movies, and how the portrayal of women – cis and trans – has changed over the decades that we have been making movies.

Follow me on Twitter at @sexlovevideo

I have an ever extending list of films that I want to include on this blog but do send me your recommendations and I might bump them up the list!

I keep the list of movies that I am going to review and a (more or less up to date) list of ones I’ve already reviewed on Letterboxed.

You can contact me via DM or via email: sexloveandvideotape@gmail.com

About me

(The links in this paragraph are definitely NSFW!) I am a sex blogger in my 30s and first started writing in 2014. My sex blog is full of erotica, opinion pieces and nude photography. I am married to another blogger, Exhibit A, and we have a toddler together. In my real life, I’m a doctor and occasionally my thoughts on health and medicine sneak into my writing.

My pronouns are she/her

Follow my sex blog account at @theotherlivvy – it is definitely NSFW and is only accessible if your Twitter account is set up to view sensitive material!


I was hugely honoured and overwhelmed to be named on Molly Moore’s Top Sex Bloggers of 2020 list – and to come second!! There are so many writers that I admire on this list so please do check out the list by clicking the button below…

Top 100 Sex Bloggers 2020